Little Pieces of Peace

. . . In a local barrio elementary school last night, I noticed that people are different: wearing clothes of various ethnic origin. They all look like Filipino to me but somehow different in the way they talk, move and in some physical features.

With what is happening in Mumbai, India as well as the political turbulence in Bangkok, Thailand plus the neverending war in Iraq, it seems peace is a far fetched dream of mankind. Locally, there is the unresolved war in Mindanao between the government army and the Moro Islamic Liberation Front. No one wins in war. Adverse impact include displacement of locales, hunger, injuries and even death.

And suddenly a small piece of experience... that moved me.

I went to Pinagbayanan Elementary School to watch and pick up my son who will be performing that night as a member of their school's Folk Dancers. I know there is some sort of a program but I am not exactly aware what the occasion was all about.

It turned out that the people I saw, some in costumes, some in their regular attires were actually delegates coming from different parts of the country. Most of the elder people that I saw prior to the start of the program were all volunteers - some even coming from foreign lands.

The program held in our province is just their second time of having a "National Youth Camp For Peace". Attended by youths of various ethnic groups from as far as Mindanao of Southern Philippines to Northern Luzon. It was held for almost a week with the send off party being held that night. The objective of the encampment was to inculcate to the youth the importance of peace - traversing religion, beliefs, location and cultural differences. As I understood, religion was one of the focal points of the events - focusing on what was common good or they called "pearl" in every religion. The pearl that will serve as seeds of peace that will be planted into the hearts and minds of the youth and thereby share to others.

I never realized that picking up my son will be worthwhile. The stage reflects serenity and was further explained by one teen delegates.

It is the first time I attended a program wherein the opening prayer is done - first the Christian way and then the Moslem way.

I listened. And I prayed. I just used my heart when the Moslems were praying.

It was so peaceful. The harmony floating in the air.

They presented videos of the youth camp activities. Of the roles of volunteers in Mindanao and in war stricken areas of the country. They showed the adverse effects of not having peace.

The program that night included presentation of Filipino folk dances from various schools of our town as well as traditional and ethnic songs performed by the delegates themselves.

I saw how the children of different background interacted with each other. Some of them discussed in front of the audience what they have learned and how they were moved by the program - being together for almost a week. Some are really youthful and dreams full of hope and aspirations.

Generally, their dreams are just as simple as to live together as they were given the opportunity to share their experiences, ideas and insights from within the participants belonging to different ethnic groups and religion.


I listened to their versions and understanding of peace. Their roles in promoting it. And their plans of sharing peace to others.

I felt the honesty and commitment of the children, delegates, participants and volunteers of the Peace Camp.

Peace... No boundaries, no borders.. Regardless of race, religion, ethnic origin or political affiliation.

I felt the harmony.

As I watched... and listened...

To the Little Pieces of Peace.

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My admiration and congratulations to the organizers of the camp for peace. One small step of planting the seed of peace in the young minds of Philippine future. Hats off to them!

Filipinos Becoming Animals?

"Hayup ka!" is often heard as a joke nowadays which means "You're an animal!" But the root of this idioms is not really through kidding but was usually heard when a person is mad which could also mean rude or inconsiderate. Nowadays, we also hear or see "Hayup!" (no pronouns) as an expression even in chatting or texting which could either refer to a person or something amazing done or said.

So are Filipinos really turning into animals?


Nahhhh.. It just so happen that animals, their name and characteristics have been a part of Filipino language, most of them as a part of speech or idiomatic expression. It's like turning the person or the subject person into an animal. I hope I can give justice to it and translate the "Filipino Animals" properly. It really sounds so different and funny if forced to be translated.

"Kapit-tuko si Pedro sa asawa!" Peter holds on to his wife like a lizard. The animal tuko or green lizard known to have a good grip is being used to connote a person who cannot let go and holds on to someone or to something.

"Kayod- kalabaw" Or works like a carabao. The animal is a Filipino farmer's best friend and works the whole day tilling the land. If a person's way of labor is compared to a carabao then he really works hard.

"Anak ng Pating" - literally means a baby shark. This is generally used as an expression of frustration about something missed or not done. "Anak ng pating, hindi natapos!" translation: Son of a shark, it's not finished! This can be used towards a person as well "Anak ka ng pating!"

Most famous and always seen on the street - the "Buwaya" - or crocodile. Now often refers to corrupt and greedy person. More often, this is used on the policemen (being on the streets or since they are known for being corrupt?) and politicians. But generally, buwaya means greedy and must come from the root word "buwakaw" of the same meaning.

"Usad Pagong" - Pagong is turtle and usad means move. Hence, a turtle person is one who moves hecka slow.

"Utak-biya" - Utak is brain while biya is one of the smallest edible freshwater fish in the Philippines. Imagine comparing an individual's brain to that of a small fish? How to use: Your progress is like turtle-phase because you are fish-brained! (Oh, so rude!)

"Lakad bibe" - (walks like a duck) butt out, usually to recognize a female with big butts and sways her hips while walking. Usage: "Oh Daisy is really pretty plus she walks like a duck!"

"Butete" - or tadpole. Refers to a person, usually male with big bellies. (Some kids catch tadpoles during my time)

"Kiti-kiti" - which means larvae of mosquito. "Para kang kiti-kiti" is a person who is constantly moving, uneasy and cannot stay in one place.

"Hanep" - gnat, a very very small insect. I remember only feeling them whenever I get eggs from our native hen's nest when I was young. Seeing them? it's like seeing small dots crawling on your arms! Hanep is an expression meaning very impressive, amazing, extraordinary or outstanding! Use: "Hanep sa likot ang batang ito, parang kiti-kiti!" Translation: "Gnat in naughtiness this kid, like a mosquito larvae!" Whoaaahh! Forgive me! I cannot help it but that's the way it goes!

"Baboy" - is Pig. Period. Do I have to explain why someone called you a pig? Hehehe! Just a gossip: Last time I heard, Baboy refers to the presidential spouse (The First Gentleman?)

"Linta" - leech. This one is also used by other countries as well. Refers to persons who are like parasites - sucking the blood of another! Ewww! No, I have not heard this being actively used for our politicians (yet). Wanna start?

"Palos" - Eel. Flat, slimy and slippery. A person is called palos if he always escapes being caught similar to Leo DiCaprio's role in the movie Catch me if you Can.

"Tusong matsing" or clever monkey - This came from Aesop's fables (the monkey and the turtle). A person who takes advantage of the situation or of the weakness of the other person. Use: "Hindi nila mahuhuli ang palos na si Leo dahil tusong-matsing ito!" They cannot catch Leo the eel because he is one clever monkey!"

"Boses palaka" - refers to the singing voice of a person that is not pleasant to the ears. Means the person "croaks like a frog!"

"Boses Ipis" - Voice sounds like a cockroach. Well, have you ever heard a cockroach talk or make a sound? Obviously, this means the voice is hardly audible or cannot be heard at all.

"Parang palakang naulanan" - Like a frog under the rain. Refers to group of persons that are loud and wild, just like the frog in a pond when it rains!

A teacher to her students: "Children, how come during our recitation, your voice is like that of a cockroach and when I leave the room for a while, you're like frogs under the rain?" in Tagalog: "Mga bata, bakit kung tayo'y may talakayan kayo ay boses-ipis samantalang pag alis ko naman ng silid-aralan ay para kayong palakang naulanan?"

i know I may have missed a lot of animals. But we cannot deny that some of our acts or features are really comparable to these innocent animals anyways.

If you have other animals in mind, leave a comment here!

One thing I know and just realized: this topic is sooooo difficult but I enjoyed writing it!

Animal ang dating di ba? Translation: Animal arrive, isn't it? Hehehe! The word animal here refers to the outstanding or extraordinary (animalistic?) appeal of a thing, event or person.

Haneps!!

Important note: No animal was harmed (or abused)in the course of this activity!

Dividing Philippines Into Two Regions

The Philippines has suffered and has also benefited from regionalism. Since eons ago, loyalty and favors are more focused towards the region or land of origin, ethnicity or dialect.

This can be traced back to the inherent search of an individual to satisfy the need to belong, become a part of a team or group of people. And feel the sense of belongingness.

The Filipino and our national identity is a blend of diverse ethnic and linguistic groups that can be a combination of various background. This is brought about by the archipelagic land formation and various native dialects, plus the political regions comprising the country. Geography, religion, dialects and other beliefs and traditions are some of the causes of regionalism and division amongst Filipino people.

One of the advantages of regionalism is the the tendency of people to be more competitive in order to become better than the other region.

But this time, with great media influence, the Country has only Two New Opposite Poles! Two New Regions!

It is not based on geography, ethnic background or language anymore. This, I can say, is the impact of media to my countrymen, that affects including those abroad.

The advent of media has divided country into two new regions:

Kapamilya

and

Kapuso


These are the two major television networks competing against one another in the country, as far as I can remember.

Kapamilya (Family member or relative)is by ABS CBN Broadcast Network, usually on Channel 2. It also has regional networks to attend to palate of various areas in the country. Famous shows on this network are Wowowee (known to TFC subscribers), Maala ala Mo Kaya and some drama soaps like Kahit Isang Saglit and the fantasy soap Dyosa. It also has its roster of talents that showcase their singing and dancing prowess on Sunday's ASAP variety show. It's news and magazine shows like TV Patrol and Correspondents are what I always recall. The Kapamilya channel is known as The Filipino Channel or TFC in other countries.

Kapuso (Of the same heart or Heart Beating at the same time) - or GMA Channel 7. also has regional networks. Known for programs such as Unang Hirit and the longest running variety show Eat Bulaga. GMA 7 is also home to Bubble Gang the longest running gag show. News and public affairs programs are 24 (Beinte Kuwatro) Oras, Reporter's Notebook, Pinoy Abroad, Imbestigador and Kapuso Mo Jessica Sojo amongs others. Fantasy Soaps Gagambino and Lalola are also shown on this channel. Sunday variety show has almost the same format called SOP. Their network outside the Philippines is called GMA Pinoy TV.

Both of them has received local and international awards as well. Meaning, they are both really doing well and are recognized in the Philippines and abroad. They are both doing good and i am proud as a Filipino for having both channels.

The two channels have almost the same television format and programming on a day to day basis. It's like competing head-on. Their types of program and genre are being shown simultaneously. If the other network is showing soap, expect that the other one is showing the same thing. If not, expect that one of them will adjust their programs and time slots in order to realy compete with the other.

At times, there are mud-throwing incidents especially with their noon time variety show hosts.

You will hear Filipinos nowadays discussing or debating which one is better. Even in a single household, there can be two regions or beliefs in terms of what channel to watch. As personally observed, elder people are mostly Kapamilya and the teenagers, yuppies and young parents are generally Kapuso.

I have personally witnessed more than one heated discussion about the network war. In fact, this has crossed the Philippine borders already. More than once it happened that my 'beer session' has debates focusing on what is the better variety show: from host, to games, to dancers! This also happens in some households that I know.

Well, I have my personal opinion and I think it is obvious which one I prefer. However, there are programs that are undeniably better that the other network. Let me just say, I believe Kapamailya has also good and sometimes better shows or programs. But most of the Filipino programs that I watch are in the Kapuso region. It just suits my taste. But, it's just my opinion. My perception.

So, I guess I am a Kapuso.

Putot

I am not really sure where the word originates from. I am not even sure if it is Tagalog or not.

What I am sure of, is the meaning and reasons behind the word "PUTOT".

The term refers to the food that is taken home by guests or given away to guests of a party or any gathering.

Filipinos are known to prepare a lot of food during occasions, parties and even small gatherings. Foods being prepared are usually in excess of expected number of guests. Hence the excess food.

Well, putot does not necessarily mean excess food.

It just means food from a party or any gathering that is taken home by a guest. It can be before, during or after the party. Putot are usually provided by the hosts to their guests. but some guests are thick-faced, packing foods even if the party is not over yet. (With the hosts reluctantly saying it is okay.)

In some parts of the country, take-home foods are considered part of the tradition for Filipino events like Baptisms and Weddings. Special food is prepared generously and packed like a gift exclusively for the principal sponsors or ninongs and ninangs. It is still putot, but this is is the kind that became a sort of tradition, giving prepared foods, packed specifically and especially for the sponsors.

Filipinos in other countries practice this as well. I have observed this in most of the gatherings from Christmases, Thanksgivings even Superbowls. Excess foods are packed and sometimes forced to the guests. Well, instead of having spoiled or throwing the excess food, might as well give it away.

Oh, it will be Thanksgiving in a few days and whoever Filipino hosting the family gathering will surely prepare excess foods, aside from dishes that will be brought by guests.

For Sure, ziploc and plastic wares will come in handy....

Happy Thanksgiving!!

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Get ready... for your Putots!

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The Entries and Walks

Babette slowly writes the amount on her paper and exclaimed "Are you sure this is debit one hundred twenty pesos?"

"Yes", replied Germie. "But I am not sure why!" If you wanna copy! Just copy!" I just copied it from Diana!" and he continued pinching Babette's ears. A habit he is well-known for.

"Let me see, let me see!" said Helen. She fully trusts Diana's answers being on top of their class. She grabbed the sheet of paper and continued comparing their assignments while combing her hair.

"Don't worry I'm not gonna ask you about any of this entries! I'll just copy! Hehehe!" Puroy told Germie, grabbing the columnar pad from Helen.

While starting to copy and write, Maribeth was surprised when Puroy grabbed the copy "Hey Yayang, let us all see! Do not be bwakaw (greedy)!" And then suddenly she laughed...

The rest of the group wondered why the so called Amazona is laughing on her own. Maribeth continued giggling.. "Look guys! I was copying even Diana's name! So stupid!" Hahaha!' And everybody laughed with her.

"Shhhhh! Silence!" Said Odette and Lorie almost at the same time, placing their forefingers on their lips. "Our Boss is coming any minute now!" said the two, who works as Student Assistants in the Library.

Arlene kept her mum. Writing with hair almost covering her face, she reminded the rest "Come on guys, we only have a few minutes left before the start of class with Sir Oca!" Sir Oca is a funny and well respected professor but he's not the kind any student would want to mess up with. Known for his jokes that anybody who will not follow will be hit by a palatiaw (hatchet) on the face! ("papalatiawin ko mukha mo!").

"Ahhh, this is an adjusting entry that's why this account is debited, am I right Tess?" Joseph staring at his papers asked one of the topnotchers in the class.

"Yes, I think so, said Tess." I did the same thing as Diana's" and she continued reading her book for the next lesson.

Frowning, Elena childishly dropped her pen and paper on the table and said "I really hate Sir Bobs for this assignment! Does he think we are enjoying this? Hmph!"

"Let it go sister, let it go! Just copy, hurry up!" Said Orly in his baritone voice. Elena was also known as Sister for acting like a nun (or pretending) sometimes.

"Hey, how come I did not have that entry and my Balance Sheet is okay?" asked Eva, eyes enlarged while habitually pressing her calculator at random. "Do you think this is right, Paul?"

Paul replied, "Well, this problem is tricky. I think you need to change your answers! Where is Diana when you need her?" waving his hands, shaking like a nervous person.

"I think she's in the acacia tree near Acad Building. Classes are about to start, she's waiting there." Fe exclaimed while scribbling fast on her columnar pad!

"Hey, hey! Do you have a spare columnar pad with you?" asked Cherry almost shouting from the other table. "I still need a few sheets to finish my assignment!"

"Here, I still have some!", said Imelda passing the lined paper to Cherry through Michael who keeps on pouting while writing and then to Roy. "We are slaves of paper! Hehehe!" Roy, the school's (not so famous) heattrhob added, as he gave the papers to Cherry.

"Thanks Puto! Hehehe!" Cherry teased Roy. (Puto, meaning rice cake, the alias of Roy).

"Hey, it's time to go! Our classes with Sir Oca starts in 5 minutes!" exclaimed one of the guys.

"We will just finish this between classes!" said most of the girls. "Babette, let us have some of your baby powder!" a couple of girls exclaimed as they start to fix themselves.

The large group of students stood up almost at the same time, grabbed their school things and left the library. Acad Building, where business subject classes are held, is adjacent the library building and takes about a couple of minutes walk.

Puroy and Cirilo bragged and joked around " Hurry up slow people! You did not finish 'coz you're all so slow! Next time, just copy and do not use your brain anymore! Hehehe!"

And the group walked together...

The walk that is just a start

of their life's journey...

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This is a typical scene, where a group of students study together in order to cope up with the demands of their chosen field of study.

Dedicated to:

Batch 1993

Bachelor of Science in Commerce Major in Accounting

Wesleyan University Philippines

Cabanatuan City

Favorite Lyrics

Filipinos are usually known for our talents in music. I am proud to be a member of a family with somewhat inherent inclination and skills in this field. In one way or another, members of my clan is interested or involved in something that has something to do with music. Some of my siblings and relatives are choir members, singers, guitar players, drummers, cellist, pianist. Others even play the trombone, clarinet and other musical instruments.

Unfortunately, I was not able to master any of those instruments. My father even sent me to a guitar school when I was nine. He gave me a harmonica as my birthday gift when I turned 11. But I was not able to learn well. Somehow, something happened and I could sing in front of the audience. I started singing in front of the crowd when I was 9 years old and ever since performed in school programs, family gatherings and videokes (even drinking sessions) and whatever occasion.

People are entertained and becomes connected through music... through songs. I just realized that my favorite songs are somehow connected with each other as well. Here are the Bits, pieces, portions of the lyrics of some of my favorite songs. Try humming and naming the songs!

For just this skyline pigeon
Dreaming of the open
Waiting for the day
When he can spread his wings
and

If I can see it
then I can do it
If I just believe it
there's nothing to it
I believe I can fly
I believe I can touch the sky
I think about it every night and day
Spread my wings and fly away

It's little things that only I know
Those are the things that make you mine
And it's like flying without wings
Coz you're my special thing
I'm flying without wings
I'm flying without wings
And that's the joy you bring


Did you ever know that you're my hero?
You're everything I wish I could be
I could fly higher than an eagle,
Cause you are the wind beneath my wings.

Can you take me Higher?
To a place where blind men see
Can you take me Higher?
To a place with golden streets
So lets go there,
lets go there,Come on, lets go there

Lets ask can we stay?

Understanding People Through Candy Wrappers

People have different characters. Individual differences is actually one of the reasons that make people get along with one another.

As a social person, we live amongst throngs of various groups of people and try to live as harmoniously as we can. Whether admittedly or not, we tend to analyze the people we try to socialize with - no matter how deep or shallow (our method of analysis - not the person :)). There are people who seems to be more judgemental and keep away from people who, in their personal opinion, are considred not good influences. Some people has the tendency to be more observant and try to dig deep into behavioral aspects of another person. This is how we, as a people, cope up socially.

The saying 'birds of the same feathers flock together' is not made out of nothing. There are some similarities that we see in each other that's why we stick together. This could be our race, class, social status, georgraphical location or even behaviors, abilities and disabilities. But opposite poles attract as well. Recognizing we have individual differences is one of the means by which we can understand people.


I personally try to distinguish people, including myself - in the socio-physchological realm. There are so many underlying factors with which to 'individualize' a person. However, other factors necessitates deeper understanding or observation and even involvement.



What is the Candy Wrapper's role in analyzing or understanding human behavior?

I use the Candy Wrapper to recognize and understand a person. This is easy. With my method, there are two kinds of categories:

First, is the concerned and conscious - the person throws the small candy wrapper in a trash can. Exerts effort in looking for a proper place to throw the smallest of trash wrapper usually made of plastic or foil. Puts it in a pocket or personal bag if trash cans are out of sight. This individual is concerned about the environment and society- consciously or unconsciously. Can also be considered an organized person.


Second, is a carefree person - throws candy wrapper anywhere. Just puts it where it is convenient - on the ground, on top of the table, on a corner of the bus seats or car seats. Just everywhere and anywhere. This does not mean the person is not concerned about the environment or about other people. But this person does not know or realize the impact of a disorganized conditions, impacts of plastics or trash in the environment among others.


I get along well with either type of persons. The objective of recognizing an individual is to understand or maybe categorize. Not to seggregate nor promote misunderstandings due to differences. I may favor the first category above but it does not necessarily mean the second is a bad person. It's just one way of categorizing individuals.


I still see a lot of candy wrappers, cigarette buts, bottle crowns and other trash thrown everywhere. (All of the photos shown here are taken in our neighborhood this morning.) Hence, there are still a lot of people belonging to the second category.


As we go out and socialize, try to observe friends, coworkers, classmates, church leaders, politicians, neighbors and other members of our society - What category do they belong to?

You....Where do you belong?

Wow! Paksiw na Bangus!

Oh, nothing can beat the bangus for paksiws! Especially if the bangus is really fresh and one from Dagupan.

There are other types of fish that can also be cooked paksiw like galunggong (roundscad) or Salay (trevally) that are delicious as well. But the meat of the Philippines' national fish has a distinct taste and flavour that fits this type of dish!

Whether locally or abroad where Filipinos thrive, bangus is one of the fast-selling fish. (Tilapia beats the rest of them). In the retail supermarket where I worked, I remember even selling Dagupan Bangus in Northern California and it was selling like hotcake!

When my byenan or mother-in-law prepares paksiw the native promdi way, all I can say is "Wow, Paksiw!" Almost the same way advertised in the famous kapamilya program of Wowowee. And with the way she cooks sinampalukan na bangus (Milkfish in tamarind broth), I cannot help but exclaim, "Aysus, Sinampalukang Bangus!" And prepare our palates for the tasty meal and (over)fill our hungry tummies.

Paksiw is a vinegar based delicacy that is super easy to prepare. It will be on the top of the dish list if I will prepare a book entitled 'Idiot's Guide in Preparing Meals' . Paksiw of whatever fish specie, from the smallest dilis to butanding (whale shark, hehehe!)- has the the same process of cooking.

Let me share how E-A-S-Y it is to prepare paksiw na bangus. This is based on my byenan's way of cooking.

Ingredients:

• 2 large or 3 medium milkfish, cleaned and gutted, cut into 4. Do not remove the scales (Filipino way to cook paksiw, it should have scales)
• 1 small ginger (the size of two toes ) - peeled and crushed
• 1 clove garlic, crushed
• 4 -6 pieces of siling green (green pepper)
• 1/2 teaspoon of black pepper (grounded)
• 2 small ampalaya (bitter melon), cut into 1-inch size. (optional)
• 2 small talong or eggplant. cut into 1 inch size (also optional)
• 1 spoonful patis (or depending on your taste); or use salt, about half teaspoon
• 2 cups vinegar
• 1 cup water

Step 1: In a pot (kaserola), preferably palayok or earthen pot, arrange the ginger, garlic and vegetables at the bottom.

Step 2: Place the bangus (fish) on top of the vegetables. Add the water and vinegar then the black pepper and patis. Do not cover. (Don't ask me why, she just told me not to cover it.) Bring to boil.
Step 3: Add the green pepper on top of the boiling mixture. Season to taste. Simmer for 10 minutes.

Best served with, what else? RICE! Garlic fried rice also goes well with Paksiw. Try it and let me know how loud you shouted "Wow, Paksiw!"

Wow! Paksiw na Bangus! is really mouth-watering even just as I imagine it! Oh, hold on, I just need to wipe my mouth.....

FILIPINO Life is A Beach!

The archipelagic land formation of the Philippines promotes appreciation of the waters and of island living. Surrounded by waters, the more than seven thousand islands of my country has major tourist destinations anchored on beaches and its resources. The sea also serves as the major source of living for most people living in coastal areas.

I remember when I was young, my family and friends have to travel more than four hours just to enjoy the nice beaches of Pangasinan.

The Central Plains of Luzon where I grew up is, as the name implies, far from beach resorts. (Well, we boast of being the rice granary of the country.) My almost annual summer vacation in Botolan Zambales to visit my paternal grandmother 'Papo', will not be complete without spending days on the beach.

As years passed by, I became a beach bum and tried to visit the beach if location and time permits. I was lucky to have visited different beach resorts that my country is proud of. Aside from being scenic, the climate offers the right temperature and weather (especially summer), that is incomparable to other counties.

Coastal areas in the Philippines is so picturesque, I can't help but spend a lot of time gathering photos. Unfortunately, during those times, digital photography was never heard yet. (Hence I have spent rolls and rolls of films! Hahaha!) But I already have a few collection that I can share.

Looking at some of the photos, it makes me crave to go to the beach again. ..

Let's go and enjoy Philippine beaches!!!

(Oops! No pun intended! Peace!)

Angels Brought Me Here

That's the title of a song from Idol finalist Guy Sebastian.

It's been a long and winding journey, but I'm finally here tonight

Picking up the pieces, and walking back into the light

Into the sunset of your glory, where my heart and future lies

There's nothing like that feeling, when i look into your eyes...

My dreams came true, when i found you

I found you, my miracle...

Let me skip some portions and continue with these lines, as I dedicate this song to my angels.

If you could see, what I see, you're the answer to my prayers

And if you could feel, the tenderness i feel

You would know, it would be clear, that angels brought me here...

Brought me here to be with you,

I'll be forever grateful (oh forever Faithful) My dreams came true

When I found you, My miracle...

I am very proud and honored to say I have been blessed to have met a lot of angels. They have helped and still continue in assisting me in reaching for my dreams.

These angels have been a part of my life and still provides good influences.

They are the kind of angels that do not have wings and halos. My angels do not even fly. But they are miracles of my life. Poured so much blessings to me, that I consider them angels. I hope they will know that I am acknowledging and am grateful.

Big miracles, small miracles... Showers of blessings are provided by my Angels. As I thank them, let me try to recall who my angels are.

* Angels that have watched over me from childhood. Molded my character and taught me what is right and wrong - and the courage to choose what is right, although difficult at times.

* Angels who took care of me when I was a toddler. When they talked about it nowadays, I appreciate how hard it is to watch over a naughty child!

* An Angel that supports my every decision. Claps with every achievement. Felt more hurt when I am wounded. Lifts me up when I am down. The Angel I laugh with and dream with...the love of my life.

* Angels I met through a surname search, eventually has become more than a distant cousin and an in-law to me. They are the angels who watched over me and ensured I am on the right path morally and treated me like a member of the family.

* An Angel who became a second mother to me. Watches over me like her own child and shows utmost concern for my well-being as well as my loved ones.

* Angels who are also called friends. These Angels meant so much to me - they have done too many good things - words won't be enough to thank them.

* An Angel that discusses family, religion, politics and anything goes. So open, intelligent and broad-minded, we can discuss anything under and beyond the sun.

* Angels from my workplace. Filipinos, Fil-Ams, Latinos, Viets and other nationalities who supported, worked and played with me. Some became my long time friends.

* An Angel who shows genuine concern to me, although we seldom see each other. I really can feel the love and care as this angel sends jokes, messages, emails from time to time.

* Angel blood relatives that took care of me, protected me and will forever be my angels. (They have to accept it, I am their relative whether they like it or not!)

* Little Angels of my life that serves as inspiration and provide my life's direction.

I know, there are other angels not on the list. With so much angels in my life, I feel so blessed... forever grateful for having them.


As the journey of my life continues... I hope to keep and meet more angels along the way.


And YOU could be one of them...

The Family that Drinks Together...

Gets drunk together!

Hey, hey, hey! Do not blame me but love for alcohol runs in our blood. Not to the extent of having arrested DUIs or needing to be rehabilitated through AA. But, I don't mind being in the same genre with that of Paris Hilton or Mel Gibson or Shia LeBouf!


We just share this common genes that makes us appreciate wines, champagnes, beers, schnapps, gins, vodkas, rums, brandy, tequila, whiskeys, liquers, lambanogs, bilog, cocktail drinks and....


I even dreamed of becoming a bartender! Most of the time, I try to concoct different cocktail drinks and strong shots during family gatherings. I take care of the bar as much as I can. I have been successful at times, in getting some friends and relatives getting either tipsy or totally wasted! We only know how to appreciate alcohol and tries to influence others to become a part of our matured taste!

There are a lot of memories with my family enjoying the company of one another, boosted by spirits. Wines of different colors and flavors, gins, and beers are a part of every occasion - Birthdays, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year, Fourth of July, Super Bowls, Manny Pacquiao fights, celebration of achievements and the list goes on and on... Even the mornings we wake up is an event to celebrate! That's another day we need to be thankful for! Hahaha!

Younger members of the clan are treated with non-alcoholic mixes. They are not yet allowed to drink or taste it. But often, I tease their parents if I can train them before 18. Soda, juices and sparkling ciders are provided to them from time to time. (Some sort of training, eh?)

One thing for sure is, alcohol makes any event more enjoyable and the party more fun! My relatives has their unique way of getting spirits influence them. My pride, is, that never have I seen anyone seeking trouble or arguing too much or looking for a brawl or fight. Never!

Alcohol brings out what they have in mind and what they really feel. Some people really need a doze of alcohol to be more open or to perform in front of the public. Introverts become extroverts - thanks to alcohol! Here goes some of my relatives' traits after a drink or two (and they will know who they are once they read this):

• Crying over a lost relationship which is, like, eons ago;


• Shouting to the world how much she loves her siblings and cousins;


• Hugging everyone in the room (see how much love there is?);


• Repeatedly stating how much pride one has for another relative;


• Exchanging stories of historical family events - something that can compete with World War II!


• Laughing (and rolling) at very very corny jokes or sometimes laughing at nothing!


• Philippine economy, politics and related frustrations! Hehehe!


• For the usual non-performers: Singing and dancing at everyone's amazement!


• Craving for food and pulutans - eating it like a regular main course!

Our relationship becomes tighter since we have known each other better through bottles of beer and sips of wine. During some drinking times with very close relatives, we tell stories, often considered secrets, only our close buddies would know.

I, on the other hand, is usually a listener and observer.. unless they will give me a microphone! I will sing my heart out! hahaha! Well, I don't need the the booze just to sing and talk, anyways. As an aspiring bartender, I try to get a hold of the bar as much as I can. Mix some drinks and entertain my relatives (through mixing and singing).

My family and relatives just knows how to appreciate alcohol.

How can I help it?

It has been a part of gatherings since biblical times!

Or maybe even before things got recorded in history.

We just love to to be together and drink together!

My pride to them who knows how to handle themselves from the first sip to the last drop of alcohol!

A toast to my family and relatives!

Cheers!

More Than Meets The Eye

"Reserve a seat for me, please" I told my cousin as they needed to queue ahead of time to secure a seat for the opening of Transformers the Movie that starts at seven that evening.

At 6PM, I was still at work, and had to stay for, like, a thirty more minutes before I can go to the movie theatre. I prefer that AMC theatre in Eastridge compared to Century Theatre Great Mall, aside from it is near our house. (Oops, it is my cousin's house near Capitol Avenune where I stayed for almost 2 years.)

My cousins and nephews are already seated inside the theatre when I arrived. One of them, waited for me at the lobby. We dashed to our assigned seats as we enthusiastically waited for the movie to start. If not because of their effort, maybe it will take me a week before I've seen the movie.

The movie was great and I enjoyed every bit of it. Thanks and congratulations to director Michael Bay. I think he was able to capture the right characters and attitude of these fictional characters. Aside from realistic and breath-taking actions scenes!

It does not stop there. My relatives and I went our way, buying transformer toys right after we had dinner that night. If I remember it right, we went to Walmart in Milpitas (near Black Angus, where we dined). I bought some toys including a mask that transforms your voice to that of Optimus Prime. (My kids still have and enjoy the

mask. The transforming robots are nowhere in sight.)

Yes, I have never outgrown my fascination for cartoon characters, particularly Optimus Prime of the Autobots. I do not think I will ever grow out of this. My hair, already thinning plus the three kids I have, I still like watching cartoons. Sometimes, undeniably influenced by my favorites.

Fact is, I have used 'Optimus' as my call sign for my three years stay in a warehouse shopping club. All key officers of the business uses a two-way radio and we were tasked to provide call signs. I opted for OPTIMUS and it stayed, with a good recall, respected by most of the employees.

The name OPTIMUS itself demands respect and somewhat sounded like number one or leader. I have been asked a lot of times why I chose and where did I get the name. Seldom, if not only at that time, these employees have met a Senior Officer using a cartoon character as a call sign. Some of them have Trinity, Scorpion, Archer and Monarch. I never denied that I got the name fromTransformers, but I have to emphasize what the name also implies. Based on my research Optimus is the Latin word for best, aristocrat, noble.

Often, we will hear this on the radio "Optimus-Bravo 2. Optimus this is Bravo 2, please come in!" echoing in every corner of the building. That's the security guard at the entrance or employees' exit, usually seeking permission about whatever is happening that requires senior approval. There are times, I am not even called by my name anymore. Radio users, especially the security guards, uses my call sign when they talk about me. Whew! The influence and impact of Optimus.

I believe, during the time "Sir Optimus" was on duty (and whether he is known as Optimus or his real name), he treated others with respect and gained respect out of it. He was able to work with, enjoyed the company of, and lead the team as inspired by the name - which he believes is what more than meets the eye....

Here, There And Every Mall

Mall rats!

Filipinos are known to be mall rats! Goodness, I cannot even help it myself. Wherever I go, Malls interest me. Yes, I also love beaches, bars and other hang out or relaxing places. But, hey! Filipinos has a unique way of relaxing! Going to the malls!

In the Philippines, we are proud to have Mall of Asia by SM, that claims to be the largest shopping mall of Asia. I am not sure, though. Because Mall of Dubai opened its doors this November and it is now claiming to be the center of the world, being the largest shopping mall.

I am of course, fascinated by the grandiose sizes of the malls nowadays. However, probably because of my personality and the nature of my work, size is not the number one consideration for me. I adore malls that provides quality services, in terms of amenities and personal touch.

I remember being a fan of Alabang Town Center. It is very small compared to the sizes of SM and Robinsons in Mandaluyong. ATC has its personal touch that makes you feel at home. Aside from its nice comfort rooms and of course the theatre. Maybe, ATC has the familiarity of NE Pacific Mall and NE Shopping Mall, the first mall I have worked with. Fact is, that mall is the first building to have escalator in our province! It's not really big, almost similar to Guam's Micronesia Mall, very airy and kinda have the tropical atmosphere.

Talking about restrooms, I am amazed by the posh facilities of Dubai Festival City Mall. Being a promdi, it is way way beyond my own words. Eye-dropping earth color inspired with elaborate tile designs. It is too luxurious for me. Far, far better than even the five star hotels I've been to.

Just like how I liked the mall in my home country, I adored the malls in Dubai - and there's a lot! I've visited Mall of the Emirates that boasts of the second largest indoor snow activities and with nice ceiling and roof designs. The same goes with IBN Batuta Mall which has major contemporary designs of Asian influences in each wing areas such as Egyptian, Indian and Chinese courts. The intricate and elaborate designs of IBN Batuta is so amazing - even ceilings and chandeliers are so adorable as well as its tiger fountains. Others are the City Center Mall in Deira and Al Ghurair Mall and the one by Jumeirah Beach Park. Some of the names of the other malls escaped my memory already.

Of all these malls, i prefer Madinat Jumeirah. The old and ancient architecture of the shopping center makes it unique, as well as being just beside the creek - overlooking Madinat Jumeirah Hotel and the Burj Al Arab (a 7-star hotel). Oh, it is really relaxing having coffee in that mall at night, while looking at the play of lights of distant buildings as people of about twenty nationalities bumped into each other. One, that I also love visiting is Mercatto Mall, maybe because of its shops and the people who frequents the place. The mall's design is like a palace and, probably, it has an effect on the people that visits the place. It is like shopping amongst dignitaries and royalties!

That reminds me of one shopping strip in California that is unique mainly because of the customer base and the mixture of shops and dining place. Santana Row of San Jose, California is better visited at night in order to enjoy the place. I remember having fun with my friends while (window) shopping in the very expensive shops in there. Food is reasonable and there are dining areas if the cravings are geared towards Italian, Japanese, Mexican,.. Name it, you'll have it. I remember one night, I rendered a slow rock song in an Irish Pub! Well, that's one hobby I'm kinda proud of.... singing.

Back to San Jose, the biggest city in California, there are also some good shopping malls within and nearby cities. Great Mall, The EastRidge are generally okay. The biggest mall there is Valley Fair (which is very near Santana Row). The City also has this Flea Market that offers cheaper merchandise in various stalls covering, maybe a hectare-the largest open flea market in USA! Outside San Jose, there is Oakridge Mall and some good malls in Los Gatos and Palo Alto.

It also very near San Francisco. Macy's in Union Square is a must visit as well as the Cheesecake Factory on the upper floor! Of course, shopping must be completed by dropping by China Town which is just a few minutes walk from San Francisco Shopping Center.

The list goes on and on .. and it will continue like forever. As a Filipino, who, undeniably is a mall rat, I know I hope to visit other malls in various parts of the world!

New shopping malls are sprouting like mushrooms here and there. Different concepts, different sizes and different appeals to the buying public.

Wait for the Promdi Pinoy and see how these malls will be rated!!

'Pinas Blooms

While everything seems gloomy for me. All of these floral blooms were taken in the Philippines when I went back home due to my father's death.

















It was a major decision. I have to consider a lot of things going home. Which means giving up a career. A dream that fell into my lap without me thinking or planning about it.


When the time came for me to go back and give up everything... It was really one of the toughest times of my life.


These flowers, as they bloom, witnessed my gloom. Traveling half the world for more than 12 hours... to see my father, again.


I know my father told me not to go home and give up everything. He asked me to stay and focus on work. I know him to be a family man and always considers what was best for me and my family.


I know him to be strong. That he can deal with it. He was a military man. A proud one at that. A good one. Never corrupt. He taught me a lot of things. I learned so much from him. He was a proud father to me. He talks about his children a lot of times. Having eight wacky children means talking almost the whole day!

My father completed the normal circle of life. He buried his parents and his children buried him. All eight of us, together. I held to the last straw of my strength on his eulogy as I thanked all of our relatives and friends who stood by us. I know my father would be proud of us. And I am a son proud of his father. He guided us to be strong, decent and disciplined. Never have I questioned his being a good provider. My respect and salute to him for being the best father.

He was a father most of us would dream of having....

How can I not pay my ultimate respect and see him for the last time?

Wii Effort as Wii Buy

" This is totally unbelievable! This new gadget from Nintendo they call Wii is always out of stock! I have searched the whole San Jose and I've found none! Let's try to find one and scan the area again on your next day off , Jo, and hope we can find one before Christmas!" This is from my exhausted cousin, Ed who has been trying to buy the item since we played it in another cousin's place in Mountain House, Thanksgiving of 2007. Aside from the Holiday rush, storekeepers said they always run out of it due to limited delivery and too much demand.


There are always stories behind every gadget and games that these children play. Sometimes, stories are forgotten but, I guess the harder you get it the harder you tend to forget it.


Right after enjoying a couple of games with cousins and relatives last Thanksgiving 2007, we tried to get our hand to own a Wii. I remember, it was not easy. It was almost mid-December when we scoured the City of San Jose to look for the item. I was somewhat forced to buy a Sony PSP for my children just to have something sent to them for the coming holidays. Thank God it was actually on their requests, since the other item is not that popular yet in the Philippines.


I was enjoying the tour of the city as we scanned branches of Circuit city, Fry's Electronics and some small video game stores here and there. Even other retailers such as Wallmart, Home Depot and some bookstores were not spared! We went to the Eastridge Mall area, then the Great Mall but to no avail. It was outside the city, I think it is in Fry's electronics in Fremont where we had a flicker of hope.


As we were paying for some small gadgets bought, an employee recognized me on the checkout counter. I remember her name as Veronica. She inquired what I was doing in their place at that time and wondered why I'm not working. My job as a retailer means I do not have days off on week ends, so it usually falls on a weekday. That's the time, I realized she is one of my clients in the Asian supermarket along Mckee Road (near corner White Road) I was working for. I told her about our concerns and she said that Wii always runs out of stock. She promised to call me on the next shipment, Thursday. Well, one of the advantages of working in front of customers! Hahaha!


That same week, Thursday morning, I received a call from Veronica and told me she kept 2 sets for me. I immediately called my cousin Ed and his wife Corie. They rushed to the store and bought the reserved items. I really appreciate connections, networks and friends during those times!


Ah! It took us a heck a lot of time, effort (and of course the money), just to get this gadget!


I hope the children know and realize the stories behind each toys they have.




Next story... Transformers!!!

Games, Children and Politics

"I was cheated!"

This is often heard from losing candidates of a Philippine election. Seldom we hear candidates that concedes to the winning party. They say politics here is a dirty game, whether local or national elections. Well, it is still a game - meaning, someone is bound to win while the others lose.

I wonder if these traditional politicians ever played games when they were kids? I'm not gonna talk about X box, PSPs, Wiis and other computer games anymore.

I'm talking about the usual and traditional Filipino games that were so popular during our or their time.

These games promote sportsmanship. Acceptance, agreement and adherence to the rules and regulations set between children. There is no necessity for arbiters as each player watches and polices one another. Everybody obeys in order to continue playing. Some games are competitive in nature such as sipa, a game Filipinos played even before Spanish time. Current version is Sepak Takraw which is similar playing beach volleyball but uses feet or chest instead of arms. Other games such as Piko and Tirahang Tsinelas are also competitive, similar to a race. In these games, a team will definitely win while the other loses. As a child, there maybe few arguments here and there but we were able to iron things out. The result and fun is what matters. A team accepts defeat... What about our politicians?

In some games, a person has to be tagged "it" commonly known as 'taya". This is easily resolved by beating each other by jack n poy or 'rock, paper, scissor". Now, in the pregame of determining who is 'it' already promotes sportsmanship. As the "it", you have to bow in luksong-baka, look for hiding players in taguan-pung, run after other players in habulan or guard the can in tumbang- preso. These clearly show that in a game, someone has to serve and try to tag other players in order to be replaced as 'it'. It is the same in our society, in order to survive. In the Philippine politics, everyone promises to serve - I just don't realize if fulfilled. Or, do these politicians really mean serving constituents or serving their interests?

When McCain conceded to Obama in the recent US elections a few days ago, he gained my respect. It was game well fought. Acceptance that you lose a fight shows maturity and his ability to understand where he stands. The democrat president-elect was a gentleman as he thanked supporters during his speech. What I adored in his speech was when he said he will listen. Listen to all of the people, especially when they disagree. Have we seen this in Philippine politics.


Now, I hope politicians in the Philippines will go back to their childhood days. Try to look from the perspective of children as they played. Imagine playing luksong tinik or tirahang tsinelas. Being sport is a sign of maturity that even children embody. Accepting defeat and being humble as they win. With the intention to serve like the 'it', whenever possible.

I am still hopeful, our politicians will mature... like children.

Wii Play

Near the Sierra Madre Mountain Range, about a stone's throw away from the river, it is very rare - or to exxagerate - almost impossible to see children playing wii.

Well, the video game played by my kids and the whole family is really fun! My youngest child Yohan now 4 is good in playing bowling and beats the h**l out of me as he double strikes. I have not seen him accomplished a turkey, though. My aunt, now more than 50, who visited us the other night, scheduled a game with us! Thanks to nintendo and the inventor of wii! Now there is this game that people of all ages could play and have a good time together!

Now, as I watch my kids play, I also see to it that I observe how they do it. As they beat each other in tennis or boxing or as they patiently or impatiently wait for their turn in golf. Sportsmanship. I am currently thinking that I am developing my children's sportsmanship as they play. I want them to learn and accept that:

• There is time constraint in every game. We set schedules and it should be followed


• They need to patiently wait for their turn


• Practice humility not only when they win but while teaching other players


• Accept deafeat


• Try to learn from the other (better) players


• Respect the other players, especially the elders

Sometimes, I still see my children's faces so sad when they are beaten up. (Hey! who would be so happy and glorious losing?) Their patience being tested as they wait for their turn - whiling away time trying to play other stuffs. At times, bragging about some things they can do that others cannot! Some of these behaviors are a no-no. But honestly and practically speaking, is factual and truthful behavior (could be a part of human nature). These behaviors need to be tempered and controlled in order to survive in the jungle we call society when they grow up.

There are moments when I see them proud of one another, even when they lose. Beyond the game, the relationship continues to develop as they talk about how they played. Sometimes, the youngest is playing imaginary roles - even us adults has distinct names and characters coined after the Super Mario game.

I am no perfect in terms of disciplining my kids nor am I good in child psychology. But I think I am planting a good seed and I hope to see better persons in the future. Other parents maybe looking at it the same way, or otherwise. This is what I believe is right and can only be proved in time.

The World in the Eye of...

Promdi Pinoy

I am not really sure what will be the main content of my blog. As a Promdi Pinoy, I have this innate objective to understand the nature of people. Definitely not in a deep scientific way. Maybe I will just focus on how individual differences makes every person interesting. As this creates chaos in some parts of the world, this also serves a challenge ... that, takes courage and broad knowledge to understand.

It will not be overnight, I know, for anyone to understand different people, cultures, traditions and the environment we live in. I might dabble into art, religion, government and other interests as well.

Promdi Pinoy in its strictest term means a Filipino from the Province. A term coined which means a person who came from the province. Usually, being 'promdi' is shown in his perception and reactions - that shows being a novice, somewhat innocence in the new world and technology.

With this blog, I would like to broaden the meaning of Promdi. I coined the term Promdi Pinoy, that would not only mean, ME as a Filipino form the province. But Promdi, meaning 'from the' heart and mind of a Pinoy who orginates from the province... the footsteps of the grand Sierra Madre Mountain Range.

This will be the voice of my perceptions and opinions.

People are welcome to agree.

I also appreciate people who disagrees. Because I believe, it shows and proves that they analyze things and are not afraid to voice opinions. I welcome and respect people of thoughts and opinions!

Thank You for visiting my site and Welcome to my world!

In the eye of a Promdi Pinoy...